I Tested 19 Flatware Sets to Find Elegant, Versatile Picks for Any Occasion

The idea of having fine silverware for company appeals to me, in theory. However, I don’t have the space for multiple sets in my Brooklyn kitchen. This makes finding the right daily flatware even more important. My ideal set is versatile and pleasantly heavy. It should be casual enough for when I’m eating takeout on the couch, but still have the visual oomph for a dinner party. 

Utensils get near-daily use, so it’s worth finding a flatware set you love. The differences between individual pieces may seem subtle at first—after all, even the most basic fork can spear a piece of chicken—but slight differences and heft, and size have an impact. I weighed, measured, sliced, slurped, and speared my way through 19 flatware sets to determine which were the best.

The Tests

• Design Evaluation: I weighed each piece of flatware and evaluated the designs for heft and balance. 
• Chicken Breast Test: To test the knives, I used one from each set to slice a roasted chicken breast, taking note of any shredding or difficulty. 
• Soup Test: I used each set’s spoon to eat two ounces of tomato soup, evaluating its capacity and balance.
• Farro Salad Test: I evaluated the forks by using each set to consume a three-ounce portion of farro salad, switching between the salad and dinner forks. I tested the utensils for spearing and scooping ability. 
• Cleanup Test: After testing, I hand-washed each piece of flatware. I also ran each set through the dishwasher, checking for wear or discoloration. 

What We Learned

Heavier Flatware Was Better to Use

Weight is an indicator of quality—heavier flatware tends to feel sturdier and more luxurious. It might sound subtle, but the difference is real. A study conducted by Oxford University concluded that heavier flatware makes eating more enjoyable—diners eating with high-end silverware consistently rated their meals as better. During testing, I found that weight and balance worked hand-in-hand to create the most pleasant eating experience.

Even though it was slightly lighter, the Oneida Voss 45-Piece Flatware Set’s 60-gram salad fork felt bulky and unwieldy compared to Robert Welch Westbury’s 64.6-gram version. Still, I overall preferred the heavier sets. The average weight of dinner forks was 56.8 grams. Models that fell significantly below this, including the 36.4-gram and 44.7-gram offerings from Pflatzgraff and HENCKELS, felt thin and flimsy. 

Smooth Finishes Were Pleasant

The ideal flatware should feel pleasant both in the hand and in the mouth, and I prefer forks and spoons with a smooth finish. Some sets, like the Williams Sonoma Pantry 36-Piece Flatware Set with Caddy and Pflatzgraff, had rough edges as though they had been stamped out of a metal sheet. This created an unpleasant sensation—the fork tines caught slightly in my mouth. Other sets, like the Mikasa York 20-Piece Flatware Set and 1800 Reed & Barton Flatware Place Setting had a smooth texture but felt thin and tinny. The Made In Flatware, Dansk Bistro Cafe Flatware Sets, and Robert Welch Caesna Mirror 5-Piece Flatware Place Setting had a pleasant balance of body and presence. 

A Note on Material

Back in the day, silver was the fancy flatware material of choice, but it's also a pain to maintain: it requires careful washing, drying, and polishing to avoid getting a patina. Today, nearly all flatware is made of stainless steel, which is durable, easy to maintain, and, as the name suggests, stainless. The same goes for all of my winners, which you can toss in the dishwasher after using.

Find a Design That Appeals to You

The flatware I tested ranged from simple and classic to ornamented and elaborate. Design is a personal choice—the best flatware set is the one you’ll be excited to use. My winners are all beautiful and versatile, but a few models deserve a special design callout: The 1800 Reed & Barton is vintage-inspired and ornate, while cottagecore fans might enjoy the charming and rustic Ginkgo Lyon Stainless-Steel Flatware. For modern design lovers, check out the sleek Dansk Bistro Cafe Flatware set.

The Criteria: What to Look for in a Flatware Set

The best flatware sets are balanced, with a pleasant heft and smooth edges. Complete sets should include a minimum of five pieces—a dinner fork, salad fork, dinner knife, large spoon, and a soup or dessert spoon. Anything outside of this (like a butter knife or matching salad serving set) earns bonus points. Look for reasonably sized utensils that can fit comfortably in your mouth. For ease and durability, choose a dishwasher-safe set with stainless steel construction. Utensils should last a lifetime and will get near-daily use, so don’t be afraid to invest in a set that you love and will stand the test of time. 

Our Favorite Flatware Sets

The Best Flatware Set

Made In Flatware 4 Place Settings Set

$199 at Amazon View on Walmart $199 at Made In Cookware

What we liked: The Made In flatware set is simple and elegant. Each piece is pleasantly heavy and well-balanced. They’re also well sized—the utensils accommodate a generous amount of food and fit comfortably in the mouth. Their smooth finish has a pleasant mouthfeel. The knife is sharp enough to slice through chicken but won't accidentally nick you if you reach for it in the drawer.

What we didn’t like: This is an expensive set. At $10 per piece, it’s the priciest winner. Made In doesn’t manufacture any serveware, like a slotted spoon or large fork, so if you want your serving pieces to match your flatware, this isn’t the set for you. 

Key Specs

• Materials: Stainless steel
• Cost per piece: $10
• What’s included: 4 dinner forks, 4 salad forks, 4 dinner spoons, 4 dessert spoons, 4 dinner knives
• Care instructions: Dishwasher-safe
  

The Best Budget Flatware Set

Lenox 815486 Portola 65-Piece Flatware Set

$210 $112 at Amazon $143 at Home Depot View on Perigold.com

What we liked: This set includes everything you need to host a dinner party. In addition to 12 complete place settings, it comes with two serving spoons, a serving fork, a butter knife, and a sugar spoon. This is a great option for anyone who is stocking their first kitchen. The Lenox Portola flatware delivers impressive quality for the price, too—the pieces are pleasantly balanced and feel durable.

What we didn’t like: During testing, I found that this set has slightly rougher edges than its pricier competitors, and the fork tines catch slightly in the mouth. The pieces feel reasonably high-quality, but they’re significantly lighter than the other winning choices and four out of five of the standard pieces fell below the average category weight. 

Key Specs

• Materials: Stainless steel
• Cost per piece: $1.74
• What’s included: Includes (12) 5-piece place settings and 5-piece serving set with serving spoon, pierced serving spoon, sugar spoon, butter knife, and serving fork.
• Care instructions: Dishwasher-safe
  

The Best Modern Flatware Set

Robert Welch Caesna Mirror 5-Piece Flatware Place Setting

View on Crate & Barrel View on Zola

What we liked: This is a sleek, well-made set with heavy pieces and smooth edges. The spoons have a modern silhouette with a gentle, sloping transition between the basin and the handle—just enough to add a subtle design flair to your table. The forks were well sized and the teaspoon was large enough to hold satisfying bites of soup. Robert Welch also manufactures Caesna steak knives and serving sets, which can be purchased separately to complete your tablescape. 

What we didn’t like: The dinner spoon is huge and slightly off balance—the handle is disproportionately heavy and might tip out of a bowl if shaken.   

Key Specs

• Materials: Stainless steel
• Cost per piece: $9
• What’s included: Dinner fork, salad fork, dinner knife, dinner spoon, and teaspoon
• Care instructions: Dishwasher-safe
  

A Timeless Flatware Set Worth Investing In

Robert Welch Westbury Mirror Flatware Set

View on Williams Sonoma

What we liked: The Robert Welch Westbury flatware is smooth and heavy. The pleasant heft makes the pieces feel high-quality—each utensil weighed more than the average category weight. This set features a simple design—the utensils have clean, elegant lines and a slightly tapered handle that feels timeless and would mesh well with any interior aesthetic. The serrated knife cuts chicken easily and both forks have sharp tips and smooth sides. Robert Welch also manufactures Westbury serving utensils, which can be purchased separately to complete your tablescape. 

What we didn’t like: The Robert Welch Westbury dinner spoon is even larger than the Caesna model—it may be difficult for children or people with small mouths. 

Key Specs

• Materials: Stainless steel
• Cost per piece: $9
• What’s included: Dinner fork, salad fork, dinner knife, dinner spoon, and a teaspoon
• Care instructions: Dishwasher-safe

The Competition

• Oneida Voss 45-Piece Flatware Set: This set was almost too heavy. The bulky fork felt off-balance. 
• Pfaltzgraff Southport 20-Piece Flatware Set: This thin set felt light and flimsy. The fork’s rough tines had an unpleasant mouthfeel. 
• Reed & Barton Dalton 5Pc Flatware Place Setting: I liked this set’s vintage-inspired design but the pieces felt light and thin—each utensil fell below the average category weight. 
• Mikasa York 20-Piece Flatware Set: The Mikasa flatware is a mid-range set that failed to stand out. The salad fork was on the small side and might prove challenging for large bowls of leafy greens. The fork tines were also slightly rough. It's currently unavailable, too.
• HENCKELS ALCEA 20-pc Flatware Set: This set was a little light overall—each piece weighed less than the category average. The dinner fork was slightly off-balance.
• Dansk Bistro Cafe Flatware Sets: This is a beautifully designed and pleasantly heavy flatware set. However, its dull, non-serrated knife blade kept it from claiming a top spot—it took considerable force to slice a chicken breast. 
• Ginkgo Lyon Stainless-Steel Flatware: I liked the Ginkgo Lyon’s cute, cheery design. This set lost points because of its tiny teaspoon—it was by far the smallest spoon in the group. The butter knife is also cut-your-finger sharp, which is a bit much. 
• Williams Sonoma Pantry 36-Piece Flatware Set with Caddy: This set had far fewer pieces than its competitors—place settings didn’t include a dinner spoon or salad fork. 
• Our Table Colby Satin 20-Piece Flatware Set: The spoons and forks felt light in the hand. This set was slightly imbalanced, making the pieces feel a little unwieldy. It also appears to no longer be available.
• CB2 20-Piece Essence Brushed Gold Flatware Set: This set is functional and pleasingly heavy. It lost points because it isn’t dishwasher-safe, but could be a good choice for those seeking a pop of color, or a special occasion set you're willing to hand-wash. 
• Laguiole Jean Dubost 24 Piece Flatware Set: This set’s plastic handles feel inexpensive and brittle. The smaller spoon is quite tiny and can’t hold a satisfying bite of soup or pudding. 
• Zwilling J.A. Henckels Opus Flatware, 45-Piece Set: These pieces performed well, but the thin handles felt a little slight in hand. 
• LIANYU 20 Piece Silverware Flatware Cutlery Set: The forks, knives and spoons in this set are very thin and light. They were inexpensive but flimsy.
• Knork Original Collection Cutlery Utensils: This set was thick and bulky. The knife blade isn’t serrated and is set at a flat angle, which makes cutting difficult. 
• Oneida Mooncrest 45-Piece Flatware Set, Service This large set includes service for eight and additional serving pieces. The fork tines had rough edges that caught our mouths.

FAQs

Which silverware sets don’t rust?

Stainless steel is our top choice because it’s rust-resistant. You can run stainless steel utensils through the dishwasher without worrying about discoloration and they will never require polishing. 

What does 18/10 stainless steel mean? 

The numbers refer to the material composition—18/10 steel is 18% chromium and 10% nickel, making it a high-grade metal. 

What's the difference between flatware and silverware?

Flatware and silverware are often used interchangeably. These terms both refer to eating utensils including forks, knives, spoons, and serveware. Technically speaking, silverware describes utensils made from silver or plated in silver while the term flatware can be applied to utensils made from a range of materials. 

How many flatware settings should you have?

The ideal number of place settings depends on the size of your household and how often you entertain. Most people will find it helpful to have at least four place settings (20 pieces), but if you plan on hosting dinner parties or have more people to feed, a 65-piece set (12 settings) should do it.

What's the best way to clean flatware?

Stainless steel flatware is dishwasher-safe. If your flatware develops any discoloration or has bits of stubborn, stuck-on food, soaking the utensils in a solution of baking soda and water will help restore their shine. 

What's the best flatware set for 12?

To serve 12 people, you'll need a 65-piece set of flatware. Our favorite 65-piece set from Lenox fits the bill. It's well-balanced with a comfortable heft in-hand.

Do you need to polish silverware?

Flatware made from real silver should be polished to be kept in good condition. But stainless steel flatware doesn't need to be polished—you can even put most sets in the dishwasher.

How do you set flatware out on a table?

You're hosting a fancy dinner and want to nail the details, including setting out the flatware in the proper order. But is it knife, fork, spoon, or spoon, fork, knife? Here's the lowdown: Utensils are used starting on the outside, so place salad forks and soup spoons on the periphery (if you're using them). Forks go on the left of the place setting, while knives should be on the right. That's it! And honestly, most people, unless they went to cotillion, probably won't second-guess you.

Why We’re the Experts

• Madeline Muzzi has over 10 years of experience as a food writer and recipe tester. 
• Madeline collects vintage silver servingware. 
• Madeline has been known to eat three soups in one meal and values spoon performance.
  
• She first tested flatware sets for Serious Eats in 2023 and recently re-tested our winners along with new options. To do so, she weighed each piece of silverware, cleaned them, and used them to eat soup, slice chicken, and fork farro salad.